She doesn't care about the impact of a D. She can eject you out of her life because she doesn't feel like being M anymore. But somehow she can still tell you how to act? I've never sworn on this forum before but seriously, forget that.
HP- stop caring what she thinks, create some distance, detach. Right now you're super angry. She deserves it but you don't.
I've made three or four posts on your threads, I would have made another 100 but you can't see it. I keep saying detach and create distance. You keep agreeing and talking about space and going dark. Then you keep posting pages and pages about the nuances of every interaction with you ex.
Forget your W. I disagree with ANYONE that can read your sitch that says to be friendly. I agree with Sandi that you need separation. I agree with 25 it can't be permanent, but even she acknowledged it would be ok for you if YOU needed space. You obviously do. Son will survive, you're not the one tht did this.
I agree with not responding. I don't care if its rude. You drew out a boundary of emergency contact only. She is blowing you up. Don't let her. Continuer to distance and eventually the contacts will stop. The more you react the more fuel you pour on the fire. Let it go, get distance, post on here about your GAL and not 20 pages about a woman that walked out on her M. Maybe someday you can decide to be friendly, but maybe by the time you really detach you won't want to anymore anyway.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
