TLEE86 thanks for the response. For fun right now me and D5 D8 are doing hockey. We are right in the swing of hockey season so a lot of my extra time is taken up by taking the little ones to one practice or another. Good to know you think I'm on the right track, because honestly I woke up this morning feeling like I'm not.
Last night I had to go right from work to D8 hockey practice. I had to call W before hand to ask how we were coordinating with the kids. I was up beat and friendly on the phone, and she seemed the same. It was agreed the I would meet them three right after work and then she would head home with D5 so she could get to bed on time and W could "nap" before work.
When I showed up it all went to hell. I was pleasant but a little distant, and we had minor chit chat, along with me playing with D5. I asked how her day was and got a line about how she slept amd wasn't feeling well. Then she brought up that she had been to see a new lawyer (she got rid of her previous one). I think I handled it pretty well, but I know I could have done better. I guess it just threw me for a loop.
It seems like all the DBing is just back firing right now. Over the last week I have committed more to the LRT, and following Sandi rules. I've been met with even more talk of moving out, lawyers, the divorce process, and her increased engagement with the OM. Am I doing something wrong here? Or is this part of the process. I have read through the forum and it appears that this seems to happen in a lot of other people's sitch.
I'm doing my best to remain positively forcus, good thoughts etc but it is seeming like i am trying to move a mountain right now.
M:34 W:34 D:8 D:5 M:10 T:15 BD: 10/10/14 D filed: 10/21/14 PA/EA:09/2013 EA:09/2014 - on going (online)
