Thanks Cadet,

I have been doing all of the above. I wish I had found this board before we separated. We've been living apart now since August 2012. I would have done something's differently if I knew then what I know now. I have read DR at least 3 times plus many other books. Having a PMA and GAL I was already doing. I work out pretty much every day and enjoy spending time with friends and family. Rereading the posts about pursuer and distancer have been helpful. I can see I was passively pursing . I will write more when I'm not at work trying to type on my iPhone lol I feel like I know so many of you on the board already. Looking forward to sharing more


Me 52 H 44
T9 M 5
BD 12/11 H
split 8/12
OW moved in 12/12
OW gone for good 6/14
We get closer again 9/14
SD 13 Me 4 Grown





Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.