I have been doing all of the above. I wish I had found this board before we separated. We've been living apart now since August 2012. I would have done something's differently if I knew then what I know now. I have read DR at least 3 times plus many other books. Having a PMA and GAL I was already doing. I work out pretty much every day and enjoy spending time with friends and family. Rereading the posts about pursuer and distancer have been helpful. I can see I was passively pursing . I will write more when I'm not at work trying to type on my iPhone lol I feel like I know so many of you on the board already. Looking forward to sharing more
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.