a young marriage in trouble

[lnlyshp]

mahhhty, I understand now. Thank you for the insight. That is one thing I need to work on as well. I need to stop "giving her ammo". I also need to focus more on the process instead of dwelling on the outcome. That's a tough mindset to wrap my head around, but I understand the logic. "Love Languages" also seems like a great book for me. Thanks for the advice, my friend.

Vanilla, I hope you're right. Sometimes I feel like, although I am getting healthy physically, I am not emotionally healing as I should. I still allow her bad attitudes and occasional rudeness affect my emotions, which I know is a no-no. Detaching is a very tough process for me. I feel like I have reached a plateau sometimes, that this is the best it is ever going to be.