I agree with everyone else. Listen. And hold your cards close to the vest when you meet with H. I've been able to tell for at least a month via your posts that you're growing so much stronger and more resolved.
You *will* roar, sister. I promise. It's coming.
And Betsey? Wow. Our paths are different, but your gentle wisdom is absolutely remarkable ... and spot-on. I'm almost speechless. Good, good stuff.
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014