I, too, think back on the great things we were doing as a couple right up until DB, and that includes dates and ML (and cooking, visiting friends, playing with the kids, etc.). Even if my mind wanders there more than I care for, I've concluded that their problem was elsewhere so it's useless to find evidence that things weren't so bad. If you want your H back (I'm not sure at this point!), at least it'll fall in the column of the positives when the fog dissipates, so that's that.

One day, we'll be so detached that we'll use this forum to exchange recipes!


M39 D6 D3 (at S)
S 2014-09
D 2016-09

"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.