Originally Posted By: Pink17
The bottom line here is that you gave her a strong resolution when you left, in my opinion it was DB by the book. It is LRT. Then she did all the screaming, but you post that she said she would be willing to work on the M/R.

You took the decision do not give her a chance. Once she saw that you put resistance, she let go. Would it make a difference if she would insist even further. This woman was married to you and maybe she knows you wouldn't back up.


Hello Pink. Just wanted to be clear on this. I would be nice for W to really offer to work on our M. The night that she did... it was to get me to agree to having Christmas together as a family. When I tested her on it by asking her to sned a NC letter, she went back on her word. She later denied responsibility for that whole thing by calling it her breakdown. It was an awful night.

Last edited by HPoirot; 01/06/15 03:11 AM.

Me: 44
W: 45
S: 11
Married: 15
Together: 18
BD: 9/29/2014
OM discovered: 10/16/2014
I left her behind: 12/14/2014