Requesting support and direction

[TLEE86]

Andy, pretty sure that is everyone on this site...if you weren't thinking those things, then you'd probably really have to ask yourself what it is you are trying to get out of this S.

How are your 180s going? You mentioned you "kinda" did a 180 the other night when your W watched a movie with you and D5. I thought you handled it well, polite, engaging but not over-doing it. Obviously you didnt screw it up too bad if your W sat there the whole time with you and D5, so take it for what its worth and just keep doing those small, consistent interactions. Make every engagement with your W, whether phone, text, in person, a positive contact so that she starts to associate you with positive things, and doesn't look at you, or see your name pop up on her phone and she immediately has a WTF does he want moment.

I think its awesome that you signed up for classes again, that is definitely something for you. As Sandi mentioned, what are you doing for fun? either by yourself or with D8/D5? Probably a good thing to come up with this weekend.

Keep your head up, you'll get where you want to be sooner or later!