My IC would be very happy to hear you say that the main challenge is to find the right person.
My IC took that a little further. She asked me to consider that H was the very right person for me to raise my children with, that we were great parents and business partners. But maybe he's not the right person for me to grow old with, I need a different person for the kind of companionship I'm looking for. I don't necessarily buy into that, but she was just asking me to consider what if, and I appreciate that about her.
