I am new to this but have been reading the forum since new years eve. Ok so that night my wife was going out with her friends just to a party but she was mad and wouldnt tell me why. I was pestering her into telling me and she snaped. She told me it was over she couldnt do this anymore that the abuse was too much and she will never be with me again. She said she wants space and maybe after alot of work on my side we could try to start over.
Well the next couple days after that I was destroyed and doing all the thing you guys say not to do the natural clinging. The last 2 days we have fought and had productive talks. I start counseling tomorrow and i cant wait to get this off my chest and see what they say.
Ok so just to kinda go over what she is talking about with abuse its emotional abuse and I didnt realize I was doing it. I feel like the worst husband in the world. I love her and have already said things I shouldnt have since the S. I contacted her mom and told her im sorry for eveything I put her daughter thru and that I will always be here for my kids no matter if me and W stay together. I guess I will stop here first post wasnt trying to make it long and she called in the middle of me writing this.
