For sure, it needs to be worked on some more to get a bit more warmth. Your homework assignment is to go back to your earlier threads and look for posts to you where myself along with others helped you drafting responses to W that elicited more positive responses from her.
Yep, it's your choice to get past the pain and insanity. I did and things are better between Ms. Wonka and I. At one time, I loved her deeply and I want to continue to treat her with respect. So can you.