Ripping this gem off from Paul over in Maybell's thread:
Originally Posted By: paul19510
My STBXW told me flat out she was not coming home and did not want to be my W anymore. I told her I was going to file. When she got the paperwork, she freaked out. Ireminded her that I only did what she asked. When I met someone else after years of being left lonely...she siad to a mutual friend..."I don't get it...he moved on....." she didn't want me...but she wanted me continue hurting for her and to be alone.... I refused.