HP, have been following your sitch and certainly can relate....

Maybe if you can take a step away from the situation and think about what may be best for your S in this specific situation it would be helpful?

Seems like maybe he was feeling a great deal of stress in the situation with the school project which I am sure is not what you wanted.

Is there anything you can do to help him and still maintain your core values and your approach with your W?

Just a thought, no indictment...... It is certainly tough and we are all doing the best we know how to in very trying times.

Thoughts and prayers are with you. Stay strong!


Me-48,W-51
M-22,T-24
S- 18,16,9
Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date
Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch
Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only
Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork