train, 25yrs, others who kept up on my sitch

[twinmom]

Ok, I don't even know how to begin. Over the past few months I have dated a little but I wasn't interested in anyone really.
My H and I are legally separated but it was left at that. He would stay the night here (on the couch) most Saturday nights so I could sleep in Sunday mornings and a few random nights during the week when I would be working late. Well it morphed into every night and some nights in bed with me...... before I even realized what was happening he was in my bed every night and kissing my forehead goodbye every morning.

This holiday season hit me hard emotionally and I started having second thoughts of trying to salvage my marriage (the shreds that might be left)

Now here is the problem.... H never hit rock bottom, he has never said the "I will do ANYTHING to make this work, what do I need to do?" He is what you might call "half baked" in that he admits everything was a mistake and he regrets his actions but in his words "I am so scared of the work it would take to fix things with you" "I am too far in a hole to ever dig myself out" and "I love you but I just don't have those in love feelings for you"

Sooooooooooooooo...... I have two questions.
#1 am I crazy to even have these thoughts???????????

#2 what would your course of action be?