So my wife is downstairs packing, seperating our things. I've no plans to go out tonight and don't really want to. Am I right to be sat upstairs just ignoring it.

I've got nowhere to go and don't want to just go out for the sake of it

Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress