Maybell XXVI

[paul19510]

I agree with Betsy. If you go..listen and smile. Don't add much. If he asks what you want tell him you're still not sure...this will take some time to consider..etc.

My STBXW told me flat out she was not coming home and did not want to be my W anymore. I told her I was going to file. When she got the paperwork, she freaked out. Ireminded her that I only did what she asked. When I met someone else after years of being left lonely...she siad to a mutual friend..."I don't get it...he moved on....." she didn't want me...but she wanted me continue hurting for her and to be alone.... I refused.

I am not encouraging you to go out and do anything. It does sound like the person H is today is not a good fit for you. Please protect yourself and the kids and do what makes you happy. Maybe he pulls his head out of the sand..but I wouldn't wait around to see if he might anytime soon.