Hi Matt, yes that is partly why I shared this. I really like my life, even if it isn't the one I wanted and imagined.
Also because we were married to them for so long, we listen to what they say long after we would do if it were anyone else saying and doing this stuff.
I haven't altered a word of that email. The previous one was just as strange, and very rambling.
I don't think he realises his obsession. I didn't realise his obsession - my lawyer told me, my friends told me, and I still didn't get it.
Weird thing is, I am sorry for him - he has made a terrible mess, and still doesn't get it. I have been hurt, angry (and absolutely enraged!), jealous, and very very sad. Now I feel calm, grown up and compassionate. I still think he is an idiot, but he has in the end hurt himself more than anyone else.
