Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #5)

[Mozza]

I agree with Toots that this R is set to fail. The step-parenting, the house, the novelty, etc. If they don't breakup, they just won't be happy and that's nothing to be jealous about.

But I also agree with Wonka. Doesn't matter. You're promised to much better things. You see right through him in ways that you should have ten years ago to avoid this mess. That's sometimes how I feel about my W. You say those with children are lucky to have a link with our WAS, but I also envy you that you can cut and run. When I feel the need to stop loving W, I'm reminded of the good of the kids and realize that it's worth to wait it out longer.

Who knows? I want to have faith that he can become someone better, more compassionate, more self-aware, less selfish. But I can't right now.

He already has! He's loyal, loving, patient, not a hoarder, generous. And he's about to fall in love with you! Only, he has also changed identity. He has a different name and appearance. Now your task is to find him in the world. ;-)

(PS: You've seen my reply from 10:54 am today? I think it got buried on the previous page.)