Hi Job, he is certainly crazier - his emails don't bother me these days, but quite how he came to the conclusion that I wanted him back I am not sure . . . . . where did that one come from? I certainly don't waste my time re-reading old emails from him, even if I could find them.

And thank you, we had a great Christmas, and a lovely New Year. Son no 2 is now seriously dating my third son's wife's best friend!! (If you follow me) Keeping it in the family more or less.

The good thing is that although I will always be sad my marriage didn't last, I know that I am truly better off without him in my life