I will admit that regardless of knowing all that stuff above, the prospect that he becomes that better man to hold on to OW makes me sick to my stomach. That's an ego thing, I assume. Something I shouldn't be thinking or worrying about.

But I'm human and that's raw honesty.


Thanks, Wonka. smile I appreciate your input! smile

ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies