Moving now. He dropped the kids off at 6:00am no call no text. He is really on some kind of kick. The ow told my soon to be 6 year old that she can call her mommy or her name. My daughter chose mommy I was really hurt but I am telling the kids when your over daddy's it is his rules. That's my stands. This is a challenge for me but I'm gonna beat this. My exh grew up in a home where every new boyfriend or girefried were dad's and mom's so I have to keep in mind not to take it personal. I have to GAL ON!!! I'm gonna use this dark time to work on my responding instead of reacting. The kids always come back so high strung but I'm ready and able to get them on track. Can't wait till this stage is over. It's helping me to remember this has to change and I have to be the one to lead the change. Once I thought this to be impossible. I am the anchor for myself my kids and my ex. When this stuff happens I can see more that I have to stay strong and stand on my beliefs. First by not reacting this ow is not a factor and I'm gonna use dark to change my thoughts on this subject. THIS IS NOT About OW SHE IS JUST A SYMPTOM!!!!!! GAL on!!!
Me:34/EXH:29 Kids: S13, D5, D4 M/o7 HaskedforDgavetohim6/14 decided to work on get remarried counseling. Kids work went back to old routine. Left Nov 10 2014 OWDec92014
