We have had the drama on a weekly basis too and I am done with it. It was a week ago today we had a huge argument on the phone about her leaving the boys with her mom and not letting me keep them. There has been zero contact since. She showed up an hour late (again ) to pick up the boys Sunday. I cracked the door open and told her they would be read in 5 and shut the door again. The boys and I calmly gathered their things and double checked to make sure they had everything. They said goodbye to me and their dog and off they went. There was no hurrying, yelling or drama.

On a side note: Expectations always leads to dissapointment. I expected she would be excited to see the boys after not seeing them for an entire week.


M42 W40
T17
M15
S13 S11
BD 7-14
A discovered 7-14
WAW moved out 10-3-14
D final 2-23-15