Thanks for the app recommendation - I'll give that a go

Personally given your interaction recently i would text but only a simple 'Happy Birthday' or the kind of standard office birthday card message.

it acknowledges but doesnt pursue. He may respond, he may not but it wont hurt you.


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress