Hey look this stuff doesn't really rock my world like it would have in the past, it just is. Mostly it just keeps you guys up to speed, but it makes me sad that yes s17 is being enabled by xh by his mates and h cousin. I know they all mean well.
Funny tho how things just keep cropping up, h was a bully. Plain and simple.
The past week a bunch of bullies have come from under the wood work, another today tryed to make me accept responsibility for something which was out of my control.
Plenty would have told him fire truck off!
I was pleased I did not say sorry I caused this, I did not say I could fix it, nor did take his rubbish and spew. I was simply nice to the point and drew a line for him saying I passed you information what you did was up to to you.
You made a decision based on what you saw not me, I helped you out and went that extra mile. I stated I what felt was right and stated I felt I had done what I felt was the right thing by him at the time.
But boo ho I didn't validate how he felt. Which I could have. The thing I can I improve on a bonus which stood out to me like a sore thumb.
The thing I did well on in a very calm very direct assertive way without using a single profanity was not take his baggage on.
Didn't hurt that he had to look at a hawt dress, 3 inch heels and a much slimmer gg walking away either.
Wow, so I fluffed up the diet and food choices lately but boy I've learned to hold my ground without abuse and without becoming a door mat!
Claps loudly and bows a deep satisfied bow. I have learnt something finally and I feel very good, what is they say about the crapola before the break thru?
Does a very happy dance.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
