I read that post from Sandi and thought it was really good also. I think you're onto something in keeping communications to a minimum. However, make sure you don't cross the line and be cold and callous. It's tough and I know there are times that i struggle with being short and to the point, but not being too tough on things.
I think our W's are in completely different places wrt to their interactions with us, but I still think this is all a cover to mask the hurt and pain and not allow them to be vulnerable. I think this is not just with others, but part of what they've built up inside in not dealing with their issues and decisions. Once they tackle that, then they can start to let others help them.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
