Wow thank you so much for the reply. To be honest, Im not really sure what triggered this change. I have been in counseling for about a month now, and I haven't had 1 possessive-type thought for a little over a week now, I honestly feel like I've made the change.
I haven't asked her anything at all for a week now about where she was/is, what time will she be home, etc. I never call her or text her at all anymore, I always let her initiate.
Since making this change she has been much more friendly towards me so I'm pretty sure she sees it. I haven't said anything regarding my changes to her at all.
But there is no type of affection from her at all. I don't start any conversations with her, and I always am happy around her. Yesterday I called her baby by accident in a text and didn't catch it and she said don't call me that. And she has told me multiple times that she doesn't love me anymore.
I do plan on getting the book hopefully this week. My plan in the mean time is to keep doing what I'm doing and show no sign of possessive behavior at all. And no initiating contact and she if she eventually turns around. What do you think of my plan? Thank you so much for your help!
