Sounds like you're doing well. As you know I am no expert but maybe be more specific with your 180's. For example, what are you doing to be more attractive or happier.

Try not to mind read too much (I should really take my own advice! :)) about her questions and moving toward D. My IC tells me only to deal with what is coming at me. So until she makes that move try not to stress about it.

Me-44 (45)
H- 50 (51)
M-'96

S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)

BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas)
home Oct(sep rooms)
(EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed)
insists wants D through July 2015
no more talk of D since