Me:"Do you want to do something" H: "Not yet" Me: "We have had some lows and this is pretty low", now crying, cracking voice H: "Yes" Me: "I set a meeting with a Coach, our Coach is out for personal reasons so I have to talk to someone else. I want to talk to someone to sort somethings with me." H: "Ok" Me: "I would appreciate if maybe we consider me having a session, then you having a session and then one together. I am sure of some of the things that I did to contribute but I am angry with you" H: "As you should be" Me: "...and I am confused. How about you?'" H: "I am confused too." Me: "I will talk to her first and see how it goes, I am not sure how it will go as I would prefer to be in person and not on the phone" H: "I think it is good that we are starting over with someone new" Me: Pause, Pause "you do?" ......I went in for a hug. H: Hug, Hug. "I do love you" Me: "I love you to and want to be together forever." H: Hug
And then we talked about our house construction.
And then... Me: "Are you not staying with me because of me or because of you?" H: "Because of myself" Me: Hug goodbye H: Kisses me lightly (like we are 7 years old)
