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[mahhhty]

Had a transition today (picked up the kids are her apartment). I did fairly well. Both of our kids came down with the flu and she has had them the last couple days dealing with that. I offered help multiple times but wasn't taken up on it. Today when I picked them up, she to offered help to me. Something to the effect "If you need anything let me know." I appreciated it although I didn't take her up on it either.

Looking forward with the holiday's behind us, it is going to be easy to detach. All of our transitions will be at Daycare (run by her Mom). So presumably, I will barely see her. This also makes me somewhat sad, as I thought we were making some progress. Most likely she will begin with the questions about divorce related tasks soon or wait until after her birthday which is the middle of this month.

I suspect it is time to get things moving again towards the divorce, but I am letting her make the first move. As for things around the house, she has a lot of stuff still here, I need to make a point of getting it out.