Thank you Wonka for setting me straight. That was a very valuable to hear as I have been an obsessive OM poster and very much want to find the best balance that works in everything I'm doing here.

My bad U... please carry onward.

Me: 44
W: 45
S: 11
Married: 15
Together: 18
BD: 9/29/2014
OM discovered: 10/16/2014
I left her behind: 12/14/2014