I also like the idea of going in and just listening, and telling yourself you will not make any decisions or agree to anything at this point, and that's what you can relay to him if he asks you what you think or if you agree with xyz ("I'll need to think about what you've suggested and get back to you," for example).
Maybell, I think this is reasonable. I doubt your H has done enough homework to get down to specifics anyway.
