The only thing you can control right now is you. Try and keep busy and show hubby that you have a life with or without him. I'm quite sure he would be willing to have his cake and eat it too if you allowed him to have sex with you. Right now he knows you are there waiting and willing to take him back whenever "He" is ready. Why would he rush when you aren't going anywhere? There is no fear of loss. If you really want to get his attention set some goals for yourself. Go out, have some fun, live your life. Be mysterious....not obvious 😉
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.