I think I'm done

[BFloat]

You seem to put a lot of value on this fb request. Do I think it's weird that he unfriended you while you were still married? Yes. Do I think you were unreasonable to want to be added? Not necessarily. But seriously.. It's fb. I think it creates so much strife and gets so many people in trouble these days. Just keep in mind that when and if he does add you.. It shouldn't be your determining factor that you guys have succeeded in being friends (don't forget he can block the amount of stuff you can see on his profile).

I think you need to let go and really focus on yourself before you even consider the friends thing because at this time, it will come off as insincere. Have your feelings about OW or his drinking been magically resolved? If he brought up OW today and wanted to share his feelings about her to you, his friend, would you be ok with it? Or will it set you off on yet another emotionally roller coaster?

Please remember that everything he says was wrong with your marriage (you not being supportive etc) isn't necessarily true. His complaints and memories of you will most likely change over time.

You don't need to decide the final outcome today.. Give it time.. And put the focus back on you.