I do think now he might have been cheating. I don't think that was an idle question. The only reason to ask if it was an std is if he thought id gotten it that way, since I had been negative with D11. Between the two of us he's the one with the opportunity to stray. I certainly never went anywhere but church, book club, and yoga.
There were several times in our marriage when he would do something new in bed and I wondered where that came from -- especially in the last five years.
He traveled a LOT. And I strongly feel (in retrospect) that there was at least some boundary crossing before the OW I know about, if not actual sex happening.
He set up the Tinder account at the time he told me specifically he wasn't going to date. He violated every agreement we made when I agreed to the separation (and he wrote the separation agreement himself). He can't be trusted.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
