My W and I are coming back from our respective Holiday travels tomorrow and we'll resume our "normal" interactions.

1. I found her clothes and winter equipment at my parents' place. Do I return them? She hasn't asked for them. I'm concerned she'll feel rejected if I keep returning stuff she hasn't asked for. At the same time, I'd like her to feel that we're separating, that she's not the only one in control.

2. Do I avoid interacting with her? I'm most comfortable avoiding because she's with OM anyway, so it's not like I can attract her now and it takes my PMA down. She'll send me funny emails, give me work updates, etc. Do I engage? She might invite me for lunch. (I'll respond to the kids stuff as usual.)

Thanks!

M39 D6 D3 (at S)
S 2014-09
D 2016-09

"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.