Freddy, I want you to know that I understand your feelings. It is hurtful news.

But here's where your changes are being tested. Not by her, nor for her...for you.

Nothing has really changed. She still wants out of the marriage. You still need to hear that she does.

She did what she did. Cant undo it.

In her mind, she needed to do it. Her choice to live with.

Hurting people hurt people. That goes both ways.

What you need to choose is who are you going to be moving forward? Who do you want to see when you look back at this time in your life?