Faith, Toots has laid out exactly what progress looks like. It looks like this:
Originally Posted By: Toots
Your energies would be better focused on you, your growth, your relationship with you, your relationship with your kiddos, getting a life and detaching. He's pretty much out of your control right now.
If you've reached the point where you feel that happy in yourself, H may become curious about you and wonder what he's missing out on.
Stop obsessing with H and the OW. Really. There is nothing you can do to make the OW go away. Focus on you and your kids. What are you going to do today that's fun?
