just relax is the best advice i can give. try and take all the tension out of it for you. tension breeds tension (God am i feeling that today) fun breeds fun
but NO EXPECTATIONS and NO PURSUING - i know you know this but it really needs a massive neon sign anyway
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress