just relax is the best advice i can give. try and take all the tension out of it for you. tension breeds tension (God am i feeling that today) fun breeds fun

but NO EXPECTATIONS and NO PURSUING - i know you know this but it really needs a massive neon sign anyway


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress