W and kids went out for a bit and when they got back in I was on the phone to my dad. My W made a big point about how she wasnt going to ask - she probably thinks im being more abusive and controlling (her stock opinion of everything I say and do)
'If he's doesnt get his way then he will damn sure make sure you know he's not happy about it' Is a favourite comment she has made about me.
Anyway I'm sorting some domesticy stuff upstairs and mentionded the joint account. said I was going to transfer the direct debits to my account as they were all for this house.
My W said 'except for the lovefilm'. I laughed about this and she got annoyed. I asked why and she said 'This conversation is over'
now the background to this is that the lovefilm account is her account from before we met. In the last 3 years we have been paying £16 a month for it and we have used it maybe 3 times - that makes it about £190 a rental. I have repeatedly asked her to cancel this (I cant its in her name) and she has never done so. I never knew why cancelling it was such a big deal (I asked every 4 months or so, its not like I banged on about it every week)
Anyway she is convinced that everything I say or do is meant to control her, or bully her. Me asking for extra time with the kids was only meant to bully her some more - **** knows what is going on. either she is completely delusional, the most sensitive soul ever or I really am i truly hideous person and am failing to see it.
kind of just ranting now.
I need her out of my house. I love her, I want a happy marriage with her but right now she is off her ****ing rocker, and its drive me nuts.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
