Arcola... you don't have to do anything now. Give it a week. Block your W's page on facebook. Shut down your facebook access for a month if you need to. Stop driving by your Ws house. Start doing things for you everyday. Keep communicating just on business and be friendly. Otherwise, leave your W alone. You know what to do and you can do it.
Me: 44 W: 45 S: 11 Married: 15 Together: 18 BD: 9/29/2014 OM discovered: 10/16/2014 I left her behind: 12/14/2014