Early Sunday morning about 3 AM I was headed home from the casino and decided to drive by W's house just to see if another car was there. And it was; all lights off in the house too. I didn't recognize the car, but I highly suspect it was her Government Action Officer for the task she works on as a Contractor. My first thought was to go and ring the doorbell and confront her, but I decided not to take action on impulse.
I got the license plate number and subscribed to an online search, but no results. I also checked his pictures on Facebook, but nothing surely identifying it as his car.
So now here I sit at 430 AM in the morning, probably can't fall asleep and upset and some questions on my mind that hopefully you guys can provide a different point of view on.
I try some to play it down, but nothing petty comes to mind when someone I don't know for sure is still at her house at 3 AM in the morning. I'm definitely not downplaying an OM anymore. So, should I go dark, LRT, but only communicate business (kids, house, car, medical, etc.)?
After seeing what I saw this morning and with no definite answers, I'm just dead set on it being an OM there. I recognize all her girlfriend's cars and this one I have never seen before. So, now I'm highly considering filing for D. I want to make our marriage work, but I'm starting to feel like I'm wasting time even if I'm working on myself right now. Please, can anyone give reasons why I shouldn't file? I know there is no golden answer, just looking for some other point of views. Thanks
Last edited by Arcola; 01/04/1511:44 AM.
Me:30 W:34 M:8 T:9 D:9 D:4 D:3 S:4 S:1 D bomb: 8/2014 S 12/2014 PA Confirmed in 3/2015 if I recall correctly
