Jim0987 #9 - Blackholes, cats and overanalysis

[edz]

Hi Jim

Was spared the telling s torture as w was already out with him when I called to ask why wed received a postal redirect. I just didn't see him for 4 weeks afterward, which is entirely as bad as it sounds :-(

Insofar as the stfu juice I'm on a healthy couple of gallons of that per day at the moment but I think it is taking, I know weve seen it on TV and movies a thousand times the lbhs makes one last bid, the music swells and there's a happy ever after roll end credits... Possibly a shootout.... Depends on the movie....again too many bond movies in the past two weeks!

The point is its very very very unlikely to work as we know from the first, second etc times we tried. In my case codependency and needyness are not attractive qualities regardless of why I exhibited them in your case, and mine, bad communications keeps coming up. I can't believe either of our w's doesn't know right now they could turn on a dime and stay / work with us on our futures and they don't want to hear it again I may of course be wrong.

I know her leaving is a truly awful thought, you know how I was from my thread but I don't think there's a golden bullet you can use mate. As with all the sitches this is a time time time thing. Its a tough short term ahead no doubt, I didn't have this but I did have to split the flat contents and sort the move alone for the first time in 15 years and it was soul destroying but with it done I could start to put my space and space for s together and focus on that, just wish I had more money to finish the job - probably one of the reasons I'm so down this weekend.

Hang on in there mate.
EdZ