Here's my brutal answer. I must have missed the bit in DR/DB where it says - try to talk to him, and if that fails seduce him and then try to talk to him!

I doubt that approach is going to go well for you, and you're kinda missing the point here Faith. Your energies would be better focused on you, your growth, your relationship with you, your relationship with your kiddos, getting a life and detaching. He's pretty much out of your control right now.

Your aim is to get to the point where you can happily head home from your GAL activity - and H may pop into your head and you think....wow, I haven't thought of H for hours...or even better days!

If you've reached the point where you feel that happy in yourself, H may become curious about you and wonder what he's missing out on. But attracting him back isn't the main aim here - saving yourself (and looking after your kids) is.

I hope this helps...and isn't too brutal! - I mean well :-)

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus