Well we told the kids this morning that mummy is moving out. It was horrible

My wife did the talking and said how 'we' decided and that afterwards 'we might find it easier to be friends'

I told her she did well but that I would prefer she hasn't made out I had a choice in this.

She then said she would email nursery to tell them and I reminded her I told them months ago. She said she didn't know and that I made her look stupid. I said I did tell her so she sarcastically said 'well I guess that's just another example of our communication issues'

She seemed unfazed entirely except to be pissed at my reaction, and since D3 thinks its a big adventure W is really happy now. Meanwhile I feel like [censored]

Reconciliation has genuinely never felt a more distant prospect, and Im not sure my wife sees anything good in me.

I desperately want to argue with her, basically beg and plead, so right now I've retreated to my room and am gulping down the STFU juice


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress