Thanks to you both for your responses. I think part of it for me is the control again - ok, what's going on here. Let's get it labeled up and filed in the proper compartment.
But it's good to let go of that and just recognise that all I can do is focus on me and detaching and GAL etc....he will do what he will do.
Probably we can't put things in a neat little box anyways - too complex with layers and overlaps.
Anyway, it helps me. I was kinda thinking...am I just missing something? Everyone else seems to know they are posting in the right category on the forum and I'm not sure, I should really work this out etc.
Mantra to self.....let go Toots...let go...
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
