W: (joking) I'll just leave the kids their and go back to bed for 3 hours M: you know if you want I can watch them for a bit so you can rest W: (aggresive tone) no. It's my day, I can cope with them no matter how rubbish I feel M: I wasn't suggesting you can't, you always do a great job with them.
So ^^^^^ shows not learning
What should have happened
W: (joking) I'll just leave the kids there for a bit and go back to bed for 3 hours M: (joking) do you think 3 hours is enough, the kids may not have got all the toys out by then
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress