First repeat lesson of the day. What happened

W: (joking) I'll just leave the kids their and go back to bed for 3 hours
M: you know if you want I can watch them for a bit so you can rest
W: (aggresive tone) no. It's my day, I can cope with them no matter how rubbish I feel
M: I wasn't suggesting you can't, you always do a great job with them.


So ^^^^^ shows not learning

What should have happened

W: (joking) I'll just leave the kids there for a bit and go back to bed for 3 hours
M: (joking) do you think 3 hours is enough, the kids may not have got all the toys out by then


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress