Wow Calibri your posts sure were an eye opener for me. I have similarly to you not known when to STFU. I think you are doing great. There are always going to be setbacks. All we can do is get back up and keep moving forward. If hubby is not around you he can't blame you for his unhappiness. Giving him space to reflect on his own is a good idea.

Me 52 H 44
T9 M 5
BD 12/11 H
split 8/12
OW moved in 12/12
OW gone for good 6/14
We get closer again 9/14
SD 13 Me 4 Grown





Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.