even if it means wasting dishwashing soap or paying more for our flights.
Count me in on the control issues too (not to hijack). Apparently I still have issues because just reading about wasting dishwasher soap or paying more for flights makes me uncomfortable. They still seem important to me as not being wasteful. Zipping my lips would be hard. I understand what the IC meant though. Wow, I still have some work to do to let things go.
M:35 H:36 Married: 14yrs Kids: D7, S4, D1.5 BD: 4/14 Mentioned Divorce: 5/14 Moved out 6/14 OW confirmed: 9/14 Wants to move forward with D 11/14