Check out MelissaG's thread. When I first came here, I loved reading her posts because I could relate to so much of what she felt.

I'm going to say something and my intention is not to be hurtful. Many of us know exactly where you are. You seem desperate. It sounds like you think that *something* will fix this. Sounds like you think having sex will lead to R. I think you mentioned having sex with your h left you feeling used and hurt. Just something to consider...do you think having sex with him will keep him from having sex with others? He's already in another R (unless I'm confusing you with someone else. And I do apologize if I'm mistaken) Do you think it will bring him back? Or is it something you hope keeps him connected to YOU? Just curious.

It feels like you are giving him an awful lot of power. Just my 2 cents.


Last edited by Georgiabelle; 01/04/15 05:10 AM.

3 kids
BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. )
Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style
D final 9-9-14
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