Inside my chrysalis 9

[gan]

So glad to hear that you are OK, Ss. I've been wondering about you.

Sorry to hear that the last few weeks have been rough. The holidays were difficult for a lot of us LBS. I'm sure in time you will return to being the strong Ss we've come to know.

In terms of the cash withdrawal - remind me, have you guys separated finances? Might be a good idea if no. I so hated it when my H suggested we separate finances when he moved out, but in hindsight it has given me the security and independence I needed (to say nothing of the fact that I don't want to see what he's spending money on).